As we approach another February, Valentine’s Day is quickly upon us, and the lingering debate over whether or not the annual holiday dedicated to lovers is truly worth the hype or if it’s just another over-commercialized celebration that’s lost its true meaning is back. To many, the holiday is a day of romance, gifting roses, a bundle of chocolates, and heartfelt gestures. Yet in recent years, with social media and the “three plus months before the holiday even starts” commercials airing on TV, I wonder what the true meaning of it all is. 

But honestly, I feel like there is still a little hope left in the holiday. If you’re like me and don’t plan on having a Valentine this year, chances are you’re probably feeling a little bummed out. But no worries, just look on the bright side. Things could be much worse… Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to involve a romantic partner but rather a chance to celebrate your appreciation for loved ones, close friends, or even yourself. Treat yourself to a good time, surprise your best friend with a deep, heartfelt note, or go on a fun family outing! 

At the end of the day, true love shouldn’t be defined as “tricking” on your significant other with flashy bouquets or dinner dates at high-end restaurants but rather cherishing the moments and memories that make life worth living. So, if you’re feeling down this year, just remember to embrace the love that surrounds you and let the day be however you want it to be!